Joshua used the word ‘together’ a lot over this weekend and beautifully in context too :
On saturday morning, when he came downstairs, he looked out of the kitchen window and commented ” No bus!” which is what we call his school taxi, so I replied ” That’s right Joshua, no school today.. we are going out in the truck later”. He loves a drive out in our pickup truck so he replied ” Truck.. Together” and he beamed at me. That warmed my heart to see that the prosepct of a family outing, made him so happy.
On that trip later in the day, we pulled into a service station for diesel. I hopped out of the truck and told him that I would not be long and he replied ” together!”. I filled the car up then went inside to pay, during which time he had kept opening the pasenger door to peep at me. Joshua slid his feet onto the ground – he has very long legs – and swivelled round in his seat, but thankfully he was trapped by his seatbelt and so he could not get out , so that we could be together.
Finally at teatime, I asked him if he would prefer to eat his lasagne at the kitchen table or on his knee in the lounge, in front of the television? He pointed at the kitchen table and requested ” together”, so that is what we did.
This progress is so special as he is using so many more words these days, but he is not just repeating them as he did this time last year, he is using them perfectly in context, to express his clear preferences. He has never in his life really had that interest or communication skill to enable him to make such choices. In these three examples, Joshua clearly indicated , more than once, that he wished to be with me, his mum, which , coming from a 17 year old, is very special indeed.