Tonight is the 6th form prom at Joshua’s school and so it is a day when a real fuss is made of the 6th formers, particularly those who are leaving the school this year. The whole of the 6th form are invited, not just the leavers, to make it a bigger party. This year is a bit different, this year it will be held in the school itself, rather than a hotel like previous years. Sixth form have been preparing for this for weeks : dancing practice and making decorations for the hall. Yesterday Joshua came home with a list of things he is to bring today ready for his pamper : toiletries, slippers and Pjs so that he can chill while everyone is getting ready, getting their hair done. My main worry with that plan for Joshua as he has been this week, is that once he is in his slippers and pyjamas, they will never get him dressed into his suit again, he will just want to curl up and snooze somewhere!
The sixth-formers stay on after the school day, after parading around the school this afternoon to be admired by the rest of the school in their finery. Then parents are invited to attend from 5 pm onwards to join in the fun. The whole event will draw to a close at 8 pm when we will take our tired 6th formers home again. I really hope that Joshua lasts until the end of the party and that he finds the excitement of the other students infectious and he joins in. Last year he got over heated and so he was not on the best form when we arrived, but he perked up after some Magic Calpol and some fresh air, and soon he was on the dance floor and surprisingly, we were amongst the last to leave last year.
I know that some of the more able, aware pupils are very excited about their Prom night and they have taken an active role in suit shopping and are counting down the days to their big party. It will be a highlight of the year for many and that is really special. But Joshua is oblivious to the build up and to him, it will probably be like a summer term school disco. I am looking forward to seeing those 19 year olds who will be leaving school in a week’s time as i know some of them pretty well as they were in the same seniors class as Joshua. I wish them all well for the future, whatever it brings.
However, their leaving school, makes Joshua in the final class of his school career from September onwards, which is a sobering thought. This will be Joshua this time next year, saying goodbye to all that he knows and loves and stepping out into the mysterious world of daycare. It is a sharp reminder that we must begin to look around the alternative daycare provisions that are available in the local area and start to plan his future, as it will be here sooner than I realise. So tonight could be an emotional event.